Wisdomkeeper Connection relationship coaching impacts individuals and partners in concrete, tangible and transformative ways. The coaching is based on cultivating an awareness of both individual and relational wisdom. In partnership, conflicts become markers that point powerfully to the areas within that are most in need of our wise and tender attention. When conflicts are embraced as opportunity, the dance of relationship becomes a pathway for both personal and relationship transformation.
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Often we are so invested in fighting against or fleeing from what we see in our partners that we are convinced our very survival depends on “getting away” from their toxic actions and attitudes. In truth, our reactions most often point to what we are trying to flee from in ourselves. Wisdomkeeper Relationship Coaching teaches the practice of being individually accountable—free from the eclipse of judgment—for the exact experience we have unconsciously shaped with our partners. This practice reveals the opportunities present for us—and for the relationship—in what we are experiencing now.
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It only takes one individual engaged in her own personal work to invite change. But an invitation to change is where it just begins. When two gather for this work, or when one experiences personal change and introduces this new energy into an existing partnership, an opportunity superhighway arises to hasten the possibility of a new birth. Through dancing with the element of the “we” and not just the “me,” we enter the realm of co-creation, where we may practice surrender to something larger than we are. It is in this place that the masculine and feminine forces join in their full creative expression.
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Relationships breed reaction. Yet the same letters that form the word “reaction” also form the word “creation.”
In partnership it is natural to react against the perceived injustices of our partners. We often feel stuck or overwhelmed by these patterns, unable to find our way through. It is common to seek change in our relationship circumstances before doing the necessary work to actualize what is truly a creative opportunity. Or we might attempt to avoid the tension of these cycles by turning to a wide variety of relationship “replacements.” The unfortunate result is that we, and our relationships, slowly starve in |
protest of not getting what we want or deserve. If we greet relationship challenge as an opportunity instead
of a burden, we become free to be creators rather than reactors. We shift our consciousness to the place
of the witness/wise seer and see ourselves and the relationship from a new vantage point. This perspective allows us to work with the wisdom in our inner conflict in gentle ways that nourish rather than deplete our physical and emotional well-being.
Wisdomkeeper Relationship Coaching gives partners tools that will transform not only their relations with one another, but their relations with everyone they come in contact with in their world. When we step toward reaction as a positive force, we and our relationship partners experience openings of consciousness and new ways of being together in creatorship. |
 - KC, Bethany, CT
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